One of my clients was dating her now husband for 5 years and finally on Valentine's day 2 years ago he proposed!!! I was so excited for them both ...because they were finally taking that big step and getting married. During our first consultation where we discuss , Theme ,budget,color scheme and most importantantly the date he disclosed to me that he wasn't looking to get married until 2015! I was confused and I believe his fiance was to. She then posed the question how long is too long ? Well I believe that you both need to answer that question..marriage is a big step and hard work. So when getting married you both must be ready because if your not it may cause problems within the relationship. There is no time line for the engagement process...some couples get engaged and they are married within 12months ..but other couples get engaged and stay in the engaged stage for years. There is no right and wrong answer its only what feels right. Discuss a date both of you listen to the other see what each others goals are before you just say this is the day I want to get married..marriage is not one-sided so this decision shouldnt be either! #living2plan

So you getting married in the spring but your favorite season is winter and you want a winter wonderland wedding...most people  might find that to be a bit confusing and a bit difficult to pull off..well until now that is ! One of things that you need to remember is that all things are possible if you just believe......
1. its all about color...combining the right color with the right decor can transform any space
2.shop the clearance...if your not hiring a planner or renting your decor .. you can find good deals at some of the big department stores . You just have to know what to look for...do the math ..you'll be amazed at how much you can save at the end of a season
3. Create a design- draw up a diagram , gather pictures and make an inspiration board... Once you've gathered your thoughts it will make it easier to execute and shop!
4.Google is your friend.. Google has a wealth of information ... Type in your theme or your idea in the search engine and see what comes of it
5.call around ..certain colors ,flowers and decorations are only produced during that particular season.keep in mind that if you want something that is not normally produced may cost extra.
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Your wedding party is a big part of your day ...they will be there through all the planning and after spending countless hours of tieing bows,making  favors,and  even  creating centerpieces they deserve a little something. Here are My top ten picks for wedding party gifts:
Bridesmaids:
1. Hand painted wine glasses
2.jewlery ( to wear on your big day)
3. Spa gift card ...( they need to relax too )
4.offer to pay for them to get thier hair done( for the Wedding)
5.customize something especially for her...your bridesmaids are all different so get something that fits only them.

Groomsmen
1. Monogramed beer mugs
2.cuffinks( to wear on the big day )
3.take him out to the Ball game...plan a guys night out on the town..If budget allows  rent some type of vehicle so that everyone can enjoy themselves .
4. A Nice watch and If budget allows
Get a personalized message engraved on the back.
5.money clips

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So you are at the point in your plannig process that you are ready to create your registry. Did you know that most couples return anbout 75% of thier gifts ? That means to me that couples register for things that don't really want or dont really need. So before you go and register for everyting in the store here are some tips that you might want to consider first: 1. Review the registry program of the leading stores...who offers the most and who has the bigger selection of merchandise. 2. Review what you have...one of the biggest reasons for returns is that couples register for things they dont need.so see what you have before registering for another coffee maker. 3. Discuss things with your partner before you arrive to the store so atleast you will have a game plan. 4.survey the land!!!! If you are going to a larger store go before you actually want to register..the benefit is that you know the layout and you are not walking around aimlessly through the store....registering could take hours if you don't know where to look. 5.print out a check list...these are so helpful because they tell you what you need and how many you need 6. Lastly HAVE FUN!!!!! While scanning merchandise talk to each other listen to each other...after all you both have to look at this stuff for the next few years so you both need to like it.!!!!!! #Happyscanning#happyplanning #living2plan

So your engaged and you want to the whole world to know it....even though you will send out your save the dates or maybe even engagement announcements a wedding Website is a creative and FREE way to share your big day news and festivities with the people who are a little further a way. Your wedding website can save you time and money. Your site can help manage your guest list and communicate important " Wedding News" without calling or emailing everyone individually .If your thinking of  creating a website here a few things you should include:
1. How you guys met
2. How he proposed
3."Meet the Party" Wedding party info and picture
4.engagement photo's
5.Wedding festivities
6. Where you guys are registered at
7. RSVP
8. Ceremony and Reception Venues with address and directions
Those are just ideas...because this site is all about you so custom create it to fit your style. Happy Planning!!!!!
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So he asked you and you said yes!!!!! This time leading up to your big day can be filled with a lot of anxiety and frustration..and most brides spend so much time being angry because things aren't going her way instead of using this time to enjoy your engagement . One sure way to enjoy being engaged is to have a party if course. Engagement parties are used for many different reasons :
1. To tell the world that your getting married
2. To let people shower you with gifts and best wishes
3. To let your family and friends see the other side of your relationship
4. ( most importantly ) to celebrate. With the people you love the new journey you and your beloved are about embark on .
I suggest that while planning your engagement party have some fun don't get so caught up in theme , decor, food, or even your venue because you have plenty of time to go over that while planning the big day. Enjoy it relax let your hair down and don't worry about the wedding just focus on enjoying your soon to be spouse . # living2plan

Most of us have seen the movie Monster in law and sadly to say more and more people are not getting along with their spouses parents. In the movie Monster in law Jennifer Lopez is engaged to a mommas boy and they are planing their wedding and she keeps budding heads with his mother. Throughout the whole movie they argue and the fight for his attention and its not until the end that they both realize how important each other is to the groom/son.  If you are finding that your soon to be spouse and your parent is not getting along here are a few things that you should do:

•  Take a stand .... you need to let both of them know(separately) that you  love them and that no one can ever replace them.
• You need to make sure that they both understand how important the other is to you .
• make sure that they understand the role of the other.
• lastly make special time for each of them believe me it makes a difference