You have found your man now you need to pick your girls. Being a bridesmaid is more than looking pretty in a dress, it’s about being the most supportive, the most understanding, the most available girlfriend anyone could ask for.  She is not your slave so don’t treat her like one. You need to respect her and honor her and most of all thank her for sharing this journey with you. The newest trend that brides are doing is having a little get together where she invites all of her friends that she wants to be in her wedding and she will give them a little present of a card something sentimental to make her feel special. The choice is yours….Try to make it something personal for each of the girls so that they know you took your time and thought about them. You should really go over the top because if you play your cards right your bachelorette party will be awesome ! #living2plan